Saturday, June 13, 2009

Making A Difference

We must not in trying to think about how we can make a big difference, ignore the small daily differences we can make which, over time, add up to big differences that we cannot often foresee. Marian Wright Edelman
I love that quote. I think it’s much harder to be noble in the small daily things in life. When someone cuts you off. When you have to wait in line. When your kids are screaming and fighting. When someone offends you. When you get left out. These are the everyday moments when you could really make a difference. These are the moments when you could practice being the better person. Because it’s often these moments that someone remembers later and comes to say; I was so rude and you still smiled, that really moved me. Or I hurt your feelings and you still invited me to your house. Etc.
Because let’s face it, there aren’t THAT many big moments in our lives, and we don’t become better people in the abstract, by just thinking about it. We make a difference in little ways in the everyday moments. Or we don’t make a difference at all.

1 comment:

Henry&Ruut Mononen said...

I totally agree... sometimes I just wish that I could take back those moments that I wasn't so great in the situation....
nowadays I'm trying to make some new habits... Habits, that can change me, my life and have an impact also to the bigger picture.... Slowly. I sometimes think it would be so easy if we would have a ready made measurements for everyday situations in our life so that we could see how much we are changing.... but that would be too easy, right?